There can be many conflicting ideas when it comes to parenting. This article will go over much of the advice that is available and will give you the option to sort it out in a way that best suits you. We have gathered some of the best information available.
The most important thing to remember while disciplining your children is consistency. Parenting during the terrible-two’s can be challenging, for both little one and adult. At this stage children like to push the limits of what is and is not allowed. Make sure that you set clear boundaries and are consistent with your time-outs so children know what is expected of them.
Though traveling can be very disruptive to schedules and routines, attempt to incorporate them into your travel plans, if at all possible. Travel can be extremely stressful for young children and infants. The bedtime rituals especially will help your child feel more comfortable in the new space and allow him/her (and you) to get enough sleep!
Time outs can be an effective form of discipline for your children. Time outs give the child an opportunity to think about what they have done. They also give everyone a little “cooling off” period before problems can escalate. Give your child one minute of time out for every year old they are.
Have a daily routine or schedule as much as possible. Most children prefer routine, as it means they know what will be coming next. Surprises can be fun, but not every day. Having a basic schedule for activities, mealtimes, and naps, and a more detailed schedule for bedtime can help your child remain calm and focused throughout their day.
For mothers of newborn twins, it is wise to get a breast pump. By not getting one, your nipples may not produce enough milk at the time feeding. Also, your nipples could get very sore and painful. These can be purchased at online or any store that sells baby products.
Learn the signs of a baby on a nursing strike. Many parents experience a nursing strike and take that to mean that the baby is ready to wean. Actually babies go through periods where they are just less interested in breastfeeding in general. Babies do this generally when they are going through large developmental leaps. Just keep offering and they will come back to normal feeding rhythms.
Sometimes, unpleasant disciplinary actions must be handed down. “First, feelings; then discipline,” is a highly effective approach that begins with a positive statement that acknowledges the child’s feelings (right or wrong) and then explains your reason for setting the disciplinary consequences. This can help reduce the levels of resentment following the action.
In summary, this is some of the best advice that you can get when it comes to parenting. Please realize that while this advice may work for you and many people, you still need to make sure that you are doing what is best for your own family, and that takes time and patience.